I just turned off the mood regulator in my car. No more injections for me today what with the peaks of anger and valleys of anxiety being fairly predictable lately. Blame it on my ability to travel back in time and pinpoint exactly the hurt and the pain down to their smell and location. It’s this emotional thinking that hinders my performance. This moment right here requires far more bravery than I can currently master so I play it safe and let behavioral rituals take over.


Performance, ah! Father’s magic word, but now that he’s gone, my boss seems to have picked up le manteau, but he’s in for a surprise. You see, I have never had it out with Father so I just can’t wait for the boss to make me reach critical levels of anger to throw an apple pie to his face.


I know a girl who brought summer with her wherever how she went. Thinking I would find it in her apartment, I broke in to find out how she did it. Needless to say I was way out of my depths because I realized that my scent was all over the place and I had come home finally. I spread myself on her couch, my face beaming and left terrestrial time zones for the divine ones.

I only returned when I heard someone at the door searching for keys and I scrambled out of there as quick as possible.

V. had spring in her walk and sometimes winter in her eyes especially when I mishandled her heart because I had convinced myself that I was bad for her. For me. For everyone. But she had an amazing knack for self-preservation. Just as I was about to make her stay in hell with me, she escaped back to what kept her light and shiny. How could she stay bright year in and out? With or without me?


I don’t know how long I have vacillated and swung between self-harm and altruism, alternating between heights of blissful love and depths of self-loathing but I’m still around; at least the few bits of me that keep bringing V. back in my life. I still pray and hope she will never find out le connard que je suis.


Mother’s Day

The first poem is mine and the second one is a translation of Camara Laye’s poem: “A Ma Mere”

Education of An African Woman

I am an African Woman

Cradled at birth by rough yet motherly hands,

I was sunbathed and suncolored

from sweet brown to dark chocolate

I am African woman,

full lips, full hips, gazelle eyes, killer smile

they asked if God took special interest in making me

but I laugh and say

I got it from my mama

I learned it from my mama

To bend one knee and hold my saluting arm

I learned from my mama

to lower my eyes, bat my

eyebrows when the lover’s eye fall on me

I learned to work from sunrise to sundown

to sweep, clean and cook

to sweep, clean and cook

to sweep, clean and cook

to work on the field  and on school papers

I learned from my mama to carry your baby on your back

and hope in return they will carry you on their back

I didn’t learn from my mama that no one will see my worth

unless they get hit by lightning

but I did learn from my mama

beauty is a curse

and my enemies will think me a witch

beauty is a prize

and men drop their lower lips when I walk by

beauty is a flower

but I wanted it to be eternal

when I was young

my brother thought he was better than me

when I got married

my husband thought he was better than me

when I had a boy

my son thought he was better than me

9 months to carry men

a lifetime to be despised by them

but once in a while you see a young man lift the veil

and claim that woman are not for sale.

Black woman, African woman, O my mother I think of you …

Daman O, O my mother, you who 
carried me on the back, you who fed me,
You who govern my first steps,
you who first opened my eyes
the wonders of the earth, I think of you …

Woman in the fields, rivers woman, wife of the great river,
O thou, my mother, I think of you …

Daman O thou, O my mother, you who
wiped my tears, you who makes
 the heart rejoice, you who
patiently endured my quirks,
I would still like to be near you, being a child near you …

O Daman, Daman of the great
family of blacksmiths, my thoughts
always turn to you, yours
at every step with me, O
Daman, my mother, as I
still be in your warmth, be
child close to you …

Black woman, African woman, O
you, my mother, thank you, thank you for everything
what you did for me, your son, if
away, so close to you!

Life of a Gigolo

What haven’t I done to make you like me?

I put on lipstick

I sashay in my blue dress

but I’m still a man brought to his knees

uncovering his derriere for le mieux payant

“it’s nothing to be ashamed of”

I whisper it so often that I start to believe it

nothing like blacking out once in awhile

to smooth out the wrinkles of life

Turns out love was too cheap for me to afford it anyways

I’m all about benefits without the friendships

Life has a funny way to beat

The hope of love out you quickly

before you swell up too quickly

and people start giving 2 cents looks

No, I am a man who twerks

and outwork les beaux parleurs

no one sees you

when your money doesn’t throw weights around

but I tell you, friend, no one, yes no one

could sashay like I do


Whenever I come to new places like America for example

I follow the lead of my big toe

And no wonder I end up in strange places

But I’m like your average Joe

Trying to fit as many cords on my neck

While tap dancing in the air

The morse code for Love Me in Small Bites

Hoping for a call back from Heavens

Just a bonjour, comment vas tu

And a don’t play with the neighbor, he’s the devil


I have had my share of nonsense in my acne days

But you can’t expect me to put on new skin

Every time I cross the Atlantic

Just because this is the land of the milk and honey

to buy way freedom and bravery

But prices aren’t what they used to be

You can’t trust your eyes when you want something

So stay naked whenever you open your hand

And keep a close ear on hearts whispers

This land will swallow you whole and not leave even the bones behind

Only dirty hands get to use knives and forks

The rest of us eat with our eyes

The delicacies of an unjust god